is this title offensive now? it was a joke to myself in 2011 – but it seems like that’s not a good idea now. I am what I am, I am a surburban white boy, at least by upbringing, but that probably means something else to others than it means to me. I’m also atheist, a widow, introverted, empathetic, apolitical (to leaning libertarian), and a critical and open thinker.